I've had an 05 LWB Patrol 3.0Di SVE with manual 5sp box for about two and a half years now - now has 43000m on the clock.
* I've had a couple of problems with glow plugs, one of which was fixed under warranty - one I'm still carrying. Even with (at least) one duff glow plug, it starts first time, every time even in the middle of winter, albeit that it makes a little smoke for a few seconds.
* I've had a clutch master and slave cylinder changed under warranty.
* The engine has two oil pressure sensors - a high pressure sensor and a low pressure sensor. The high pressure sensor has failed twice - one was replaced under warranty.
* In the last month or so, I've had to replace both the MAF sensor (mass air flow) and also the Charge Air Pressure sensor (aka MAP sensor or boost sensor) to fix a power loss problem
* At about 30,000m, I had the front pads and disks replaced. At about 48000m, it will need the rear pads and disks replacing. It seems that brake disks wear about as quickly as the pads themselves.
The motor still has the original battery, shock absorbers and exhaust - some of which are likely to need replacing soon. Reliability on the road has been excellent and there has been no breakdowns requiring recovery.
Now that the engine is fully run-in and the MAF sensor has been changed, performance is very good for such a large, heavy vehicle. The engine is also very tractable. It'll footle along at 30mph in 5th on a fairly level road without a problem.
I tow a 1500kg caravan with the Patrol. It's a great towcar. On the motorway, you can overtake in 5th towing a caravan, even up a slight incline. It's also very good off tarmac - greenlaning (in fact, it's embarrased my mates Defender 90 a couple of times) - though it could do with more ground clearance.
Fuel consumption is a bit on the heavy side. For a week with mostly town driving, I get only a little over 20mpg. If you have a better mix of town/country you might get 24-25mpg. On a longish run or on the motorway, I can easily get 26-28mpg. Don't believe the official figures, you haven't a hope in hell of getting 30mpg no matter how gently you drive the motor - maybe if you drive the length of the M6/M5 at 40mph you might, but I haven't tried that.
I don't know how "late" a Patrol you are thinking of getting. I'm not saying you should avoid it, but the later Patrol with the CRD engine is said to be very thirsty if you exploit it's performance (according to rumours on the Austrailian patrol4x4.com site).
Hope this helps
Andrew