Ryan got angry today, had a fight

[clivvy]

although im with you on this Ryan, I think I see the problem.

The problem, is your reaction. OK, the kid hit your car, they probably didn't mean to mate, accidents happen, but if you shouted at the kid first off, then yeah I totally understand the parents reaction.

You didn't give the kid chance to say sorry, or the parents, and as soon as you shouted at the kid you negated any opportunity for apology. not blaming you, just saying that from what I read, you started it!

its not nice being in those situations, ive had them although I try very hard not to be the first to do the shouting.

 

[96terrano]

although im with you on this Ryan, I think I see the problem.

The problem, is your reaction. OK, the kid hit your car, they probably didn't mean to mate, accidents happen, but if you shouted at the kid first off, then yeah I totally understand the parents reaction.

You didn't give the kid chance to say sorry, or the parents, and as soon as you shouted at the kid you negated any opportunity for apology. not blaming you, just saying that from what I read, you started it!

its not nice being in those situations, ive had them although I try very hard not to be the first to do the shouting.

Yeah but they walked past pretending they didn't notice......

 

[bry]

good lad. Stand your ground.

So how would Ryan or - anybody else this happened to - go about getting the parents to cough up for the repair? What if it was a decent sized crease instead of a wee mark?

I had a incident some years ago.Kids on garage roofs throwing stones.One hit the bonnet of my Granada.Put a dent in it.I spoke to the mother(No one knew who the father of the sprog was,mother included)The answer i got from her.Well thats why you have insurance.I went ballistic,and said what happens if i cancel my insurance and run your little scroat over?

 

[96terrano]

I had a incident some years ago.Kids on garage roofs throwing stones.One hit the bonnet of my Granada.Put a dent in it.I spoke to the mother(No one knew who the father of the sprog was,mother included)The answer i got from her.Well thats why you have insurance.I went ballistic,and said what happens if i cancel my insurance and run your little scroat over?

bastards! sounds like the twats we get around here!

 

[bry]

bastards! sounds like the twats we get around here!

Yeah but these were'nt tourists

 

[John B]

The best thing you could have done is simple head butt the stupid bitch, and if the father started give him a fooker too. Happy days

 

[clivvy]

The best thing you could have done is simple head butt the stupid bitch, and if the father started give him a fooker too. Happy days

:lol:thumbs

aye, give them a bit of the old Pop Eye!

 

[clivvy]

Yeah but they walked past pretending they didn't notice......

in that case yeah, id have got hold of the kids bike for compensation. And if the "father figure" had anything to say about it, twat him WITH the bike.

 

[96terrano]

The best thing you could have done is simple head butt the stupid bitch, and if the father started give him a fooker too. Happy days

i hit her with the car door....hard:augie

 

[clivvy]

i hit her with the car door....hard:augie

damn right man. any ****er did that to me (stand in front of me or my car door) id have done the same. People have no right to act like that, so she got what she deserved. next time buddy, take a millisecond to think, and video the thing.:thumbs

 

[96terrano]

in that case yeah, id have got hold of the kids bike for compensation. And if the "father figure" had anything to say about it, twat him WITH the bike.

was getting tempted to twat him with a torsion bar that i keep near the front door for that very reason

 

[puddle hoppers inc.]

your meriva has heavy doors so you just pushed her..? eh? you used your door to push a woman?

 

[96terrano]

your meriva has heavy doors so you just pushed her..? eh? you used your door to push a woman?

Good cars Vauxhall, solid build quality yes I did, because she was standing really close and wouldn't let my out my own car.

 

[clivvy]

^^ yeah, he hasn't hit her with the doors, he has opened the door and she refused to move. that's fair enough :thumbs

 

[96terrano]

^^ yeah, he hasn't hit her with the doors, he has opened the door and she refused to move. that's fair enough :thumbs

Yes:thumb2