Job Dilemma...

[extreme-4x4]

go down there if they wont speak to you. or stop paying and they will phone you very quickly

i like option 3 honest. BUT your outgoings are too high, rent ,fuel, tesco shopping,

so even if you loose the csa, and the service station lunches if you loose your job.... you still need big money to meet your commitments.


budget plans are what you need to be doing and fast if your thinking of a new lifestyle... its no good chucking your job in until you know AND ARE VERY SURE you can survive without it. hey come to wales i'll join you breaking trucks .

 

[Adz]

go down there if they wont speak to you. or stop paying and they will phone you very quickly

I'd go down there but it could be at Southampton, Wrexham or Newcastle

:doh as they keep moving my case :nenau
If my boss doesnt pay, he gets fined 2k

i like option 3 honest. BUT your outgoings are too high, rent ,fuel, tesco shopping,

so even if you loose the csa, and the service station lunches if you loose your job.... you still need big money to meet your commitments.

The £300 is my only commitment to me mum n dad but from the 11th October there'll both be ok as there'll both be retired & on pensions


budget plans are what you need to be doing and fast if your thinking of a new lifestyle... its no good chucking your job in until you know AND ARE VERY SURE you can survive without it. hey come to wales i'll join you breaking trucks .

I just might take you up on that :thumbs

 

[extreme-4x4]

hastings office will sort it for you.

 

[solarman216]

I have worked in the Hasting CSA building (on their drains re smells in the offices) and have been there when staff talk to customers (you) on the phone and seen the looks on their faces, when clearly the person on the line is trying to describe the difficulty they are having, well I could have smacked em round the head for the smirks and inappropriate sign language that was being tossed from one operator to another, they were treating the whole thing as a laugh, addmitedly this was 4 or 5 years ago but I have chanced to work (privately) for several people who work there, and they are now off my customer list, their whole attitude is out of order, they tried to treat me as a nothing because they worked for the CSA , sorry if in future if their plumbing pisses water every where, I wont be going to sort it out, Rick

 

[Adz]

:lol :clap :thumbs

 

[extreme-4x4]

im lucky i guess. i work 3-4 days a week on minimum wage in my new job, now i live back in wales:augie

massive fuel bills too:nenau

 

[churpychappy]

sorry had to say somethingnot retired yet,csa had all that, son now 26,dauter now teacher,at school i was just thick,now she says its got a name,she tort me the spell checer well nearly works bit more work maybe:nenau was chippy did well for few years,got aaonther job ok trying for another hope iget it:clap not rich other things gone wrong whats torets been told i mite have it? bas---d s---t,at the end of the day ester says THATS LIFE lets just live it be happy,do your best and sod the rest:thumb2my mums dead now but she used to say thay can take my cloths,money,but thay will never get me,god bless her and good night 6 till 2 bye

 

[kbekl]

we have dealings with csa for our eldest daughter we havnt recived a payment from them since on and off since 2005 and to be fair we never got all the money that was paid to them more like half tbh he was supposed to pay £65 and we got about £38 out of it

my advise would be to cut dealings with the csa and go a different route via direct bank transfers (so their is a paper trail) that means you are not lining their pockets to ignore you although we never really had much trouble with them when their has been a need to call, i think if you have the children you can opt to sort the childrens needs out and deduct it from the payment

i would opt for option 3 long term would be better on you

 

[briggie]

gotta be option 1 , but look for another job or opportunity while still working , at least you have a guaranteed income while searching

 

[Adz]

Well I'm defiantly gonna jack in Just got to choose the right time

 

[zippy656]

just after pay day..

 

[Adz]

What makes it hard to jack in is that me boss & i get on well

 

[Deleted account DD]

What makes it hard to jack in is that me boss & i get on well

Makes no difference. Its very rare a bussiness folds because one employee leaves, that applies to most of us.

If he's a mate you'll see him again, if he's a boss/work colleague and you've got nothing else in common you may never see him again you've simply moved on.

You'll find with ex colleagues that if you meet up with them after youve left, some you'll be bored shitless talking to because theyre living in the past and all they talk about is how things were (as opposed to interesting or amusing anecdotes) whereas with others you'll have a brief "hows so and so" or " hows work" then bin that and go onto the serious business of beer and errr beer.

:thumb2

 

[The Patrolman]

Makes no difference. Its very rare a bussiness folds because one employee leaves, that applies to most of us.

If he's a mate you'll see him again, if he's a boss/work colleague and you've got nothing else in common you may never see him again you've simply moved on.

You'll find with ex colleagues that if you meet up with them after youve left, some you'll be bored shitless talking to because theyre living in the past and all they talk about is how things were (as opposed to interesting or amusing anecdotes) whereas with others you'll have a brief "hows so and so" or " hows work" then bin that and go onto the serious business of beer and errr beer.

:thumb2

:thumb2 So True :thumb2

 

[11redrex]

What makes it hard to jack in is that me boss & i get on well

Talk to him about it, tell him it's stressing you out but you don't want to leave him in the lurch. You never know, he might come up with a solution that suits you both.

 

[BigBlack]

Talk to him about it, tell him it's stressing you out but you don't want to leave him in the lurch. You never know, he might come up with a solution that suits you both.

Id second that... worth a try :nenau If you do leave still a chance in the future you could go back if need be?

 

[Adz]

Umm, its because its a small family run haulage company but established & treats me like a son in some ways that i dont know how or when to tell him

Its the CSA that has caused all this really as before, the more i worked the more i earnt where as now

they just fleece me & i'm left with very little if anything

 

[briggie]

Umm, its because its a small family run haulage company but established & treats me like a son in some ways that i dont know how or when to tell him

Its the CSA that has caused all this really as before, the more i worked the more i earnt where as now

they just fleece me & i'm left with very little if anything

suggest he pays you overtime as cash in hand ? :nenau

 

[zippy656]

i used to get payed over time in goods. so if i wanted a new cooker hes get me that, or new flooring..

 

[Adz]

I'll have to have a word...
I know he wouldnt have me self employed because of the insurance policy...
Guess its talk time Monday morning...