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[rustic]

Originally Posted by briggie

next step is to give her a hug everytime you see her , or at least everytime she leaves / arrives

Yes, nothing wrong with that, it shows you care, a quick very quick peck on the cheek and separate soon after also shows you care and you really enjoy her company.

Don't hold the hug too long, don't explore with your hands, of try to make any lip contact with the kiss. It is only a peck on the cheek, no more than you would give your Granny.

After a few hugs and similar greetings, she might turn her cheek away, expecting the kiss to her lips.
Her move not yours.

On the subject of Hugging, it is also a family bonding situation.
My son lives abroad, when he returns or leaves, he always has a hug, both arms around shoulders.
I do this with his girlfriend, also my daughter and her partner. He has lost both his parents, so feels comfort that he has been accepted into our family.

I wish my Father did this, too late now.

So don't underestimate the the Hug, in your situation she might see it as a family bonding situation, so don't rush it.


I sort of get he impression that hugs aren't common place in your household.


Take it easy.

best regards,

Rustic

[96terrano]

Cheers, yeah, wasn't a long hug I'll say, thank for the advice rustic

[revolvor]

Just read some of this, the suspense is driving me mad, you need to write everything down and google Barbera Cartland for the inspiration to write a novel.

Some really great advice too

[96terrano]

Yeah, great advice, not just 4x4s here

[96terrano]

taking Zenka for a day out tomorow