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Terranosaurus
11-11-2007, 12:24
Myself, Sweety, JonatanM and a few others post on Difflock and Mudclub, offer a little advice to fellow Nissan owners but suggest they join us on here for more info - seems someone doesn't like that

HERE (http://forum.difflock.com/viewtopic.php?t=17046&highlight=)

Jocky
11-11-2007, 12:39
He was a member on here and wasn't happy about the tenner then.

Each to there own :roll:

:smile:

looking at members list he's still a member on here. :!:

Deleted Member
11-11-2007, 12:48
There's always somebody somewhere complaining about something!!
:? :?

11-11-2007, 13:06
Maybe if people have a problem with the cost they should not join. But constant pusing of the club only irritates people, its all about personal choice at the end of the day.

However there is some club issue's internally that I think need addressing before people winge on about other clubs.

Sometimes its not what you say but how you say it.

jace
11-11-2007, 14:15
thing is your also promoting there site on here and it works both ways they may get new members from here and vice versa,keep up good work mate!

LouLou
11-11-2007, 14:33
I came from Difflock and I don't have a problem with it. I also have a Jeep and pay and frequent the Jeep Club forum and that costs too. 8)

Just cannot please some people especially whinging Barny? :roll:

Deleted Member S
11-11-2007, 14:57
I'm a bit shocked that someone has kicked up a fuss 8O 8O 8O If it was'nt for you HB & JonathanM advicing me to join this club I would have been a bit stuck & well out of pocket due to garage prices :roll: A few weeks back there was a lad on mudclub that did'nt know about the ultra sonic button on tha dash & asked what it was for,so I told him & sent him a copy of the instuctions from the hand book as i've done for club members :smile: I told him about this site & he is joining the club in the next week or so :smile:

jace
11-11-2007, 15:15
nnman came across from navara forum an hes lovin it on here we are getting more an more models joining i reckon weve got all bases covered terranos,r3ms,mavericks,mistral,patrol old and new,navara,pathfinder,d21 so dont think were doing to bad eh! so stuff em

Deleted Member
11-11-2007, 16:33
I see our newest member has an x trail,haven't got many members with these,or am i talking rubbish again...lol
Oh and welcome to the club thestudiowizard,hope you enjoy it here!! :lol:

jace
11-11-2007, 16:42
think thatll make two x-trails now but as terranos get older and scarcer well get more more newer models in which will keep variety questions and answers interesting and club alive!

mav
11-11-2007, 16:55
More like 15 X-trail owners plus, thats without those that dont tell me there vehicle type when registering, I always ask but do not always get a reply.

I think the problem is they are still new ish and until they start having problems with them they are not going to find us as most of our members found us because they are having vehicle problems and don’t want to pay garage prices.

and nothing wrong with that.

Mav.

jace
11-11-2007, 17:35
be quite funny day someone tips upto offroad day in modded x-trail lol

andrewk
11-11-2007, 17:57
Maybe if people have a problem with the cost they should not join.

What can you buy for a tenner these days - couple of gallons of diesel? As I said in another post in another thread, if something is of value then it's worth paying for. I take that view about the Nissan4x4 owners club; my GLASS membership - and I'd take that view of Wayfinder too, if it wasn't included as part of the GLASS membership package.

FWIW, I paid Nissan4x4owners club a tenner just a couple of weeks ago. I reckon I got my money's worth and more in the Derbyshire laning trip yesterday. :smile:

Cheers
Andrew

Deleted Member
11-11-2007, 18:05
I've only managed one laning trip this year,next year hopefully get to go to more and the rallies,well worth the tenner!!!
Haven't seen any mod'ed X trails yet,or seen any off road for that matter!!.
I'm sure they are quite capable though...after all it is a nissan..lol 8)

andrewk
11-11-2007, 18:13
[b][i]I've only managed one laning trip this year,next year hopefully get to go to more

Have you done any in Scotland? Do you know of any in Scotland?

Cheers
Andrew

Deleted Member
11-11-2007, 18:22
I've only done one up in my neck of the woods(tushielaw!) very easy lane...lol planning to do most of the fords in the borders and there is one good lane that crosses the border on a roman road.
Quite fancy that one,I'm not to far from the border,so getting to some lanes in Northumberland isn't a problem.
My pal is a gamekeeper nearby,so i manage to get my truck dirty now and again..he has a landy(sorry for swearing..lol) and i have no probs going where he goes once i take my towbar off!!
apart from one ford that i chickened out on :oops:

(RIP) PLANK
11-11-2007, 20:09
As i have said before in some respects I think a tenner is too cheap! I also think that if it were a free site you would get loads of problems and hassle and possibly more people than you can handle!

£10 keeps the riff raff out :lol: most of them but I still sneaked in :wink:

Ladyinred, were you reffering to internal issues in this club, or the diff lock forum, i have got a little lost :oops:

I also think this is much more than just a forum hence the joining fee, it is the hard work of members and mods (and MAV :wink: ) for discounts, rallies, greenlaning, offroad days, help and advice on all sorts of issues both 4x4 related and not, a real online community!

bigjim
11-11-2007, 20:22
At the end of the day nothing wrong with heathy debate, perhaps this club aint so PC after all, but there are some members who like to say it as it is ???
Aint there Jace????? :lol: -banghead- -banghead-

jace
11-11-2007, 20:39
i know some of the lads ive tried to get interested regard us as bunch borin ol farts to scared to say anything a bit rude/naughty in case it wakes someone up , but then again few of then got mitsibishi worriors so not much hope for them!

(RIP) PLANK
11-11-2007, 20:46
I agree a bit of lively debate is great and we dont allways have to agree, the thing is you need ground rules and it is fair that we all agree to agree on these. Or as Al the landlord says you got to have rules or where would we be, thats right ....

jace
11-11-2007, 20:52
i hate that programme nearly as much as eastbenders curry st and hemeroid farm arrrggghhh

(RIP) PLANK
11-11-2007, 21:11
I am no big fan of it myself, I prefer Earl Hickey for my comedy, but you know what i meant :lol:

11-11-2007, 21:12
Ladyinred, were you reffering to internal issues in this club, or the diff lock forum, i have got a little lost :oops:

Both, Id like to really voice my issue's -banghead- but I'm as my name says I'm a lady.

I'm not digging at the mods on this site, just some of its members for there sucky attitude towards other members that happen to be members of other clubs (and other such childish whimpering) for example some of the comments made on the lane day Saturday. 'nuff said or I will rant on about it. :oops: :evil: :x

Was not impressed at all.. :roll:

(RIP) PLANK
11-11-2007, 21:14
Ladyin red, I appreciate you are a lady (and a fine looking one too :wink: ) if i ever say anyhting to offend let me know straight away by P.M. and i will endeavour to change my ways!

P.S. dont tell the big fella i said the good looking bit in cas he thumps me at the next rally :wink:

JonathanM
11-11-2007, 21:16
My main point of irritation with Barny is that he uses the wording that people are being "told" to join this club, and does not see the provision of a link as being supply of information, nothing more, nothing else.


Perhaps next time I respond on Differs*, I'll say "I know the answer but you'll have to join the club,pay £10 then I'll tell you". That is telling someone to join.





*you know I won't, but I just don't like being "told" that I've "told" people to join :smile:

(RIP) PLANK
11-11-2007, 21:22
I see your point mate, many people may not know we are here and will be gratefull for your friendly pointer, he seems to think it is a hard sell and all bad.
I think once people are here they will see it all very differently, I like this site and dont visit any others, I like the way that issues get talked through and we have the free ranging selection of topics!

11-11-2007, 21:40
Ladyin red, I appreciate you are a lady (and a fine looking one too :wink: ) if i ever say anyhting to offend let me know straight away by P.M. and i will endeavour to change my ways!

P.S. dont tell the big fella i said the good looking bit in cas he thumps me at the next rally :wink:

I hold my own council as some of you are fully aware if we have met, and take no prisoners if something / somebody irritates me, I pack a mean verbal punch! (or as I mature walk away)

Hummingbird didn't really need to start this thread and neither did barnyzuki on the Diff site, it just caused a rant off. These clubs, be it the Difflock, CORC, Nissan or any others shouldn't deviate from what the club is about, going out on lanes, nice company (sometimes) driving skills, mechanical help etc... (and I see the culprit has not been back on and posted since, maybe he's gone to find a bigger spoon to stir the pot with)

(Plank - seriously do you not think he wont read my posts - its not Big Brother its Daddy is watching you! haha or little brother if Stressman was still a member)

(RIP) PLANK
11-11-2007, 21:45
Ladyin red, I am not going to reply in case i incriminate myself further :wink:

I am simply going to hide :!: :lol:

11-11-2007, 22:02
Ladyin red, I am not going to reply in case i incriminate myself further :wink:

I am simply going to hide :!: :lol:

-rotfl- :!:

bigjim
11-11-2007, 22:17
Di9fflock club looks good dont it???

jace
11-11-2007, 22:18
plank what are u man or a mouse squeek squeek comes the reply lol, i think a bit of critisym on anything is good otherwise wed be blundering around ignorant of other peoples views i do agree with planks idea that if something upsets a member tell them by pm hopefully were all big enough to take it on chin (or both of em in my case!)

11-11-2007, 22:35
plank what are u man or a mouse squeek squeek comes the reply lol, i think a bit of critisym on anything is good otherwise wed be blundering around ignorant of other peoples views i do agree with planks idea that if something upsets a member tell them by pm hopefully were all big enough to take it on chin (or both of em in my case!)

You have obviously not met Me or My Dad, not that I think I'm missing anything.
Those who have offended me should know who they are and I'm not going to PM them and start a petty PM "he said she said" I'm a better person.

And Plank was only jesting with me, which made me smile, and I'm sure me Dad wont mind, even if he does, I'm an adult not a child.

Note to Mods: Maybe this thread should be closed or moved? Its kinda pointless now... even i'm bored with it, and I can talk / laugh / bicker for England.

11-11-2007, 22:44
Daddy is watching -rotfl- -rotfl-

11-11-2007, 22:50
Daddy is watching -rotfl- -rotfl-

When don't you!!! :lol:

jace
11-11-2007, 22:54
oh ive seen some pretty petty pms sent to other members then passsed round by email.it just seemed rather than cause grief in open forum a pm could nip in blood it werent meant about u an plank planks far to nice to upset anyone lol

11-11-2007, 23:01
Don't know if I am speaking out of turn here, but to spend a tenner compared to what is spent on the upkeep, modifications, running of a 4x4 on a yearly basis? Surely that is not something to be moaning about? Hell, my kids cost me more than that in an hour!!!

jims-terrano
11-11-2007, 23:10
Hey Carter, what's COTAG :?:

Jim T

11-11-2007, 23:10
Daddy is watching -rotfl- -rotfl-

When don't you!!! :lol:

Very never :!: :wink:

Deleted Member
11-11-2007, 23:12
http://www.cotag.net/index.php

just waiting for them to start up in the borders!!

Bat21
11-11-2007, 23:20
i know some of the lads ive tried to get interested regard us as bunch borin ol farts to scared to say anything a bit rude/naughty in case it wakes someone up.
:wink:

11-11-2007, 23:31
:wink:

Can't please all the people all the time Paul, or even some of the people some of the time :wink: :roll: -rotfl-

jace
11-11-2007, 23:37
most lads who i know with 4x4s exspecting site to be bit more "normal" cant believe how "pc" it is maybe it just us southerners bit more wild lol

11-11-2007, 23:51
most lads who i know with 4x4s exspecting site to be bit more "normal" cant believe how "pc" it is maybe it just us southerners bit more wild lol

Define normal ???

Have you taken the thought that its because we were brought up properly and there are children and not just adults on this site.
Yes sometimes political correctness is taken too far, but in the case if swearing I'm sure some of you have a far better vocabulary that to use such toliet talk, when there is no need, however some of you can't even spell check let alone watch what what you say, so maybe not.

(note to Jace: dont bring the North / South stuff into it, I'v friends all over the world (off & on line) and none of them use a foul tonge on forums)

jace
12-11-2007, 00:01
whoa calm down missy who was on about swearing etc all i was saying is some the lads i know who ive tried to get into this site say its a bit tame one lads gone from nissan terrano to mitsi worrior now wants navara aventura (seen the light lol!) seing as couple lads in ireland just bought that model thought id get him interested enough that way but he couldnt get round the rules an regs etc each to his own i manage fine 99% time dont mean i have to like it though it is bit embarsing when lads you work with laugh at site! we may just be lowly tree surgeons etc but you wouldnt believe how many courses we have to go on latest wheeze is to enable us to communicate with machine operatives! ie shout horrible nasty word really offensive word how sad you are loud!

Don't help youself any do you Jace? It just makes you look childish

12-11-2007, 00:25
COTAG = Community Offroad Transport Action Group.

The only 4x4 response group used by and approved of by the police and emergency services. The Moray group is up and running and the Aberdeenshire group is busy being established. We should be up and running about half way through next year.

If anybody here is in Scotland and is interested in joining, give me a shout and I will get hold of the guys and put you in contact with them.

Terranosaurus
12-11-2007, 00:29
COTAG = Community Offroad Transport Action Group.

The only 4x4 response group used by and approved of by the police and emergency services.

Its not. Wessex, the whole of Norfolk/Suffolk (under about 6 Response groups) NE and Humber-Yorks all working with blue light services. We're in Emergency plans, sorted with out of hours doctors to provide standby cover if weather threatens let alone happens - even got permission to use NHS logo now and looks like we'll be issued with green lights when needed.

(RIP) PLANK
12-11-2007, 00:41
Di9fflock club looks good dont it???not as good as this one!

I agree with Ladyinred, this club has a very mixed membership I believe and if all the other froums are full of all sorts of bad language and stuff then it can be an oiasi in a winderness of ruffians that many 4x4 owners would find intimidating!

As i said before if we want people to turn up as families as rallies they have to feel it will be a nice place to take the kids and the only way they will feel that is if we all behave in a reasonably adult manner on here!

(RIP) PLANK
12-11-2007, 00:45
having re read the thread i doubly agree with ladyin red as i cant spell or type and dont even know how the spell check works :wink:

and i dont care :lol: :lol:

12-11-2007, 01:23
Stand corrected then. I will check my facts!
Maybe this is the reason friends and family call me numpty?

mav
12-11-2007, 08:33
Am i understanding this right, we are to PC?, may be i should switch of the word sensor for a week and see how it goes!, may be no one will complain or comment about it and we can leave it switched off.

I am not going to keep every single one of our members happy but if you can tell me how this is done please let me know.

Do we have to be the same as every other 4x4 club?.

May be i try to hard and too easy going, i don’t know.

P.s. Because some people dont know when to shut up i have lost one of my best members as they have decided to take a back seat, Not only a member but someome that is a friend and someone i feel i can turn to for advice.

Mav.

wolf
12-11-2007, 09:36
4 pages and alot of repeating and quoting, i vote close this post!

(RIP) PLANK
12-11-2007, 10:04
a shame to close it when Mav has proposed some interesting questions,

Mav, no no need to be the same as everyone else! in fact perhaps it is the difference that is this clubs strenghts!

I see no need to turn off the auto censor as it does set auto ground rules that the majority seem happy with!

Can't comment on the member and friend as not knowing exactly who and why but. i think it can be easy to take things personaly when there is a disppute going on between members on screen, a dispute that like many often sorts itself out given enough time! There are situations that need taking charge of yer, but I feel that some of these have been jumped on a ittle too hard and too fast and it has inflamed things rather than cooled them!

think this then leads to more resentment and frustrations and the issue gets blown out of all proportion when it could have been settled by being left alone! I do have an example in mind but best not to re open old settled issues on line as it would take things down the wrong route.

SIMPLY PUT - just keep going as you are and try not to let the occasional dispute get you down mate, as it is nothing personal

bigjim
12-11-2007, 10:33
Could use difflock to vent our gutter language then this one to be prim and proper 8) :lol: :?: and get good soild advice from its forums and members, 8) i have and can not see me having any real issues with this club, and if i break a rule, :oops: i am big enough to take any critisum on the chin, :roll: say sorry, :oops: or justify my self 8O , and move on :?: -banghead- at the end of the day i have saved my tenna ten fold in advice alone, :lol: then look at the entertainment value on top, :arrow: its extreamly good value.

(RIP) PLANK
12-11-2007, 10:40
Exactly Jim and we dont need to swear to make a point, I think if you let it become an anthing goes situation you get dragged to the lowest common denominator. In this club's case membership comes at two prices £10 and good manners, and in return you get sound advice and an non threatening envirnonmnet where you feel safe to air your views, and able take you family to meet other members without oncerns over what you are getting into!

NNMan
12-11-2007, 14:22
nnman came across from navara forum an hes lovin it on here we are getting more an more models joining i reckon weve got all bases covered terranos,r3ms,mavericks,mistral,patrol old and new,navara,pathfinder,d21 so dont think were doing to bad eh! so stuff em

Yep I love it, if someone dont' like it they shouldent bother!

12-11-2007, 14:31
4 pages and alot of repeating and quoting, i vote close this post!

I did already mention this....

Even I can't keep my mouth shut sometimes, its just so easy to retaliate, when you are in a temper, however I have chilled somewhat since Saturday.

Sorry Plank about the spelling dig, nothing personal, it was just a wide open comment.

After this weekend I doubt I will be such an active member on or offline.

Regards

LadyInRed

jace
12-11-2007, 14:34
i have no sympathy for anyone who lets anything as trivial as few posts on an internet site upset them so much they feel they need to exsclude themselves from it maybe if someone did like boggert and robbone have had done to them and put dirty great scratch down side there pride joy i could understand having wobbler but ol addage of "sticks and stones may break my bones" i dunno maybe im an exception to rule or something

(RIP) PLANK
12-11-2007, 14:38
Jace, you are a 'one off' :lol:

Ladyinrd please reconsider as you are a welcome change from all of us boring anoraks squabbling, maybe you can sort us all out :wink:

and my spelling isnt bad it is artistic :smile:

NNMan
12-11-2007, 14:47
I have been offline for a few days, theres no chance I will be able to read this whole thread, I dont really know what happened at the weekend, but I do notice that the rules and rule breaking are brought up a lot in this club and I dont know if they wrent brought up so much then people may just get on with it...................... perhaps not.

jace
12-11-2007, 14:58
navara sight doesent colapse into chaos and constant swearing arguments and i cant remember when mod stepped in and moved/removed anything maybe mods on here are just hermits not living in real world-before i get crusified for wanting to swear etc it is not my intention of going down that road again it just anoys the heck outve me when i have a word i believe is very very tame and everyday word deleted and deleted again like i say maybe i live/operate in such wild places i dont see the real world where everybodys so frightend to say what they realy want to

12-11-2007, 15:45
and my spelling isnt bad it is artistic :smile:

Chris sometimes your a gem -rotfl-

(RIP) PLANK
12-11-2007, 17:01
and my spelling isnt bad it is artistic :smile:

Chris sometimes your a gem -rotfl-

only sometimes :cry: :lol:

robobone
12-11-2007, 17:18
i have no sympathy for anyone who lets anything as trivial as few posts on an internet site upset them so much they feel they need to exsclude themselves from it maybe if someone did like boggert and robbone have had done to them and put dirty great scratch down side there pride joy i could understand having wobbler but ol addage of "sticks and stones may break my bones" i dunno maybe im an exception to rule or something

how come i got dragged into this :lol: :lol: :lol:

robobone
12-11-2007, 17:29
:wink:

Can't please all the people all the time Paul, or even some of the people some of the time :wink: :roll: -rotfl-

or some of the people any of the time if you know what i mean :wink:

jace
12-11-2007, 18:24
robbone and boggert have had motors keys i see that as something worth gettin bit narked with but few words shouldnt deter anyone from joining in with anything thats only reason your name came into fray mate!

Steve_Ray
16-11-2007, 22:33
on a lighter note ............


Can we make the membership last for 24months? ............. It might expire whilst you're in the middle of reading such a long thread :wink: :lol:

(RIP) PLANK
16-11-2007, 23:44
I thought it would have been deleted by now :lol:

mav
17-11-2007, 00:11
Hi Plank,

Pub chat is 7 seven days, General is kept for longer.

----------------------------------------------------

Steve_Ray

Something tells me you can take as long as you want because your membership is never ending as it was a good will blessing to 2007 MAC 4x4 UK Challenge and we are proud to do this for you.

Regards, Mav and Shark1e as before.

jace
17-11-2007, 00:17
7 days from last post werent it so weve just bumped it for another 7 lol unless mav takes the exuctive descission lol

(RIP) PLANK
17-11-2007, 00:37
Jace if thats true we can keep this going for ever :wink:

jace
17-11-2007, 00:42
im was asuming it was done automaticly now it means mavs gota click the delete button!