Ryan got angry today, had a fight - Page 2

96terrano · 22-07-2013, 00:26

I then got back in the car and continued listening to me music, they started yelling abuse as they Walked away, so i just held my hand on the horn so shut them up, luckily the nearby neighbors knew what was going on, my dad was out and mum was in the shower

96terrano · 22-07-2013, 00:28

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Originally Posted by R1cho

they weren't hit by a car tho, they rode into the car while it was stationary, engine off and just radio on

Yes, Steve is correct

I wasn't driving the car

darryl · 22-07-2013, 09:58

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Originally Posted by 96terrano

Yes, Steve is correct

I wasn't driving the car

sorry mate totally misread the situation

but I was quite pissed last night I agree with you

makeitfit · 22-07-2013, 10:01

Well on this occasion Ryan I agree with you

However it's very easy to over react in such occasions, especially as I suspect you were probably in a world of your own enjoying your sounds. Then bang, Shock, and you jump etc , red mist reaction follows etc '
Any road up, as Rick says, the kids need a clip round the ear if they didn't say sorry themselves

When my son was about 14 he had a spectacular crash into the back of a new Zafira

He was on his BMX doing bmx type nonesense and it all went a bit Pete Tong. He "landed" his trick right on the poor sod's rear quarter, taking out the rear lights and putting a good size pedal scrape down the tail gate

My son peeled himself off the floor and dripping in blood went to find the owner.
Explained his cock up and the owners tended his wounds. After a father to father discussion I settled his damages via my house insurance 3rd party liability cover thingy. My son had a job in a bike shop at the time and was paying off my excess for a few weeks till I let him off the rest

Parenting is about building respect for others and self reliance too.
as we like to say , give your kids 2 things, ROOTS, and WINGS.
Well done Ryan, but leave the torsion bar mate, it's too heavy for combat

96terrano · 22-07-2013, 11:30

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Originally Posted by makeitfit

Well on this occasion Ryan I agree with you

However it's very easy to over react in such occasions, especially as I suspect you were probably in a world of your own enjoying your sounds.

Yes, that's all I done, thing is the parents just walked past pretending they didn't notice......that's what pissed my off and caused me to roll down the window

.....holiday makers pah!

Thing is, the large families in this area tend to be Nob heads, don't know why, just seem to be

clivvy · 22-07-2013, 13:30

although im with you on this Ryan, I think I see the problem.

The problem, is your reaction. OK, the kid hit your car, they probably didn't mean to mate, accidents happen, but if you shouted at the kid first off, then yeah I totally understand the parents reaction.

You didn't give the kid chance to say sorry, or the parents, and as soon as you shouted at the kid you negated any opportunity for apology. not blaming you, just saying that from what I read, you started it!

its not nice being in those situations, ive had them although I try very hard not to be the first to do the shouting.

96terrano · 22-07-2013, 14:30

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Originally Posted by clivvy

although im with you on this Ryan, I think I see the problem.

The problem, is your reaction. OK, the kid hit your car, they probably didn't mean to mate, accidents happen, but if you shouted at the kid first off, then yeah I totally understand the parents reaction.

You didn't give the kid chance to say sorry, or the parents, and as soon as you shouted at the kid you negated any opportunity for apology. not blaming you, just saying that from what I read, you started it!

its not nice being in those situations, ive had them although I try very hard not to be the first to do the shouting.

Yeah but they walked past pretending they didn't notice......

bry · 22-07-2013, 15:27

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Originally Posted by AD Ent

good lad. Stand your ground.

So how would Ryan or - anybody else this happened to - go about getting the parents to cough up for the repair? What if it was a decent sized crease instead of a wee mark?

I had a incident some years ago.Kids on garage roofs throwing stones.One hit the bonnet of my Granada.Put a dent in it.I spoke to the mother(No one knew who the father of the sprog was,mother included)The answer i got from her.Well thats why you have insurance.I went ballistic,and said what happens if i cancel my insurance and run your little scroat over?

96terrano · 22-07-2013, 15:34

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Originally Posted by bry

I had a incident some years ago.Kids on garage roofs throwing stones.One hit the bonnet of my Granada.Put a dent in it.I spoke to the mother(No one knew who the father of the sprog was,mother included)The answer i got from her.Well thats why you have insurance.I went ballistic,and said what happens if i cancel my insurance and run your little scroat over?

bastards! sounds like the twats we get around here!

bry · 22-07-2013, 16:49

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Originally Posted by 96terrano

bastards! sounds like the twats we get around here!

Yeah but these were'nt tourists

John B · 22-07-2013, 17:48

The best thing you could have done is simple head butt the stupid bitch, and if the father started give him a fooker too. Happy days

clivvy · 22-07-2013, 18:56

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Originally Posted by John B

The best thing you could have done is simple head butt the stupid bitch, and if the father started give him a fooker too. Happy days

aye, give them a bit of the old Pop Eye!

clivvy · 22-07-2013, 18:57

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Originally Posted by 96terrano

Yeah but they walked past pretending they didn't notice......

in that case yeah, id have got hold of the kids bike for compensation. And if the "father figure" had anything to say about it, twat him WITH the bike.

96terrano · 22-07-2013, 19:01

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Originally Posted by John B

The best thing you could have done is simple head butt the stupid bitch, and if the father started give him a fooker too. Happy days

i hit her with the car door....hard

clivvy · 22-07-2013, 19:03

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Originally Posted by 96terrano

i hit her with the car door....hard

damn right man. any ****er did that to me (stand in front of me or my car door) id have done the same. People have no right to act like that, so she got what she deserved. next time buddy, take a millisecond to think, and video the thing.

22-07-2013, 00:26	#16
96terrano Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Dumfries and Galloway, Scotland Vehicle: Nissan Terrano 2.7TD LWB Posts: 8,024	I then got back in the car and continued listening to me music, they started yelling abuse as they Walked away, so i just held my hand on the horn so shut them up, luckily the nearby neighbors knew what was going on, my dad was out and mum was in the shower

22-07-2013, 10:01	#19
makeitfit Senior Member Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: on the beach WEST WALES Vehicle: Maverick TDi BLACK mmm Posts: 15,136	Well on this occasion Ryan I agree with you However it's very easy to over react in such occasions, especially as I suspect you were probably in a world of your own enjoying your sounds. Then bang, Shock, and you jump etc , red mist reaction follows etc ' Any road up, as Rick says, the kids need a clip round the ear if they didn't say sorry themselves When my son was about 14 he had a spectacular crash into the back of a new Zafira He was on his BMX doing bmx type nonesense and it all went a bit Pete Tong. He "landed" his trick right on the poor sod's rear quarter, taking out the rear lights and putting a good size pedal scrape down the tail gate My son peeled himself off the floor and dripping in blood went to find the owner. Explained his cock up and the owners tended his wounds. After a father to father discussion I settled his damages via my house insurance 3rd party liability cover thingy. My son had a job in a bike shop at the time and was paying off my excess for a few weeks till I let him off the rest Parenting is about building respect for others and self reliance too. as we like to say , give your kids 2 things, ROOTS, and WINGS. Well done Ryan, but leave the torsion bar mate, it's too heavy for combat

22-07-2013, 13:30	#21
clivvy Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Huddersfield Vehicle: Terrano 03 LWB Posts: 6,947	although im with you on this Ryan, I think I see the problem. The problem, is your reaction. OK, the kid hit your car, they probably didn't mean to mate, accidents happen, but if you shouted at the kid first off, then yeah I totally understand the parents reaction. You didn't give the kid chance to say sorry, or the parents, and as soon as you shouted at the kid you negated any opportunity for apology. not blaming you, just saying that from what I read, you started it! its not nice being in those situations, ive had them although I try very hard not to be the first to do the shouting.

22-07-2013, 17:48	#26
John B Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: Wales with the sheep Vehicle: Terrano 2004 2.7 Tdi lwb Posts: 550	The best thing you could have done is simple head butt the stupid bitch, and if the father started give him a fooker too. Happy days