Bit of advice?

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Originally Posted by clivvy

going to report to police, if only to get advice on what he can or cant do. going to check deeds to make sure the "divide" he has created using tarmac (half tarmacced the drive) is correct and precise. Need to find out if him doing this breaks the agreement of shared access. Hes adament its his land, which is fine if its true, but he never went through anything with us when dividing it up, he just did it even though we said dont. He was threatening, he even said "i will threaten you" and its that, that has scared me. I dont like to be threatened because I didnt deserve it. see what the police say. I did make sure I told him "do not touch my car" and told him to go to his solicitor about the matter (he claimed his maybe is a solicitor and hes told him all he needs to know, wonder if that included a few threats?).

Im not going to let the matter rest, but all I am going to do is check the land deeds and the tarmac issue and if he is allowed to threaten me and what he can do if I do park my car there etc etc, need to be clear about things so I can be happy.

up to you buddy BUT to the coppers its your word against his. he could be the biggest arsehole in the world , but they can or will do nothing unless you have witness's.
i have found most even admit they got all shitty . when the coppers visit them with your complaint. but they still wont do any more than talk to them , which wont help " well unless he is a decent chap" but we know he isn't or we wouldnt be chatting about the events here.

my only advise is your the one who has to live there, and your next move is going to change the way you live in your home and possibly surrounding area ... potentially for a very long time ...

honestly try the " have you calmed down" bit first.
you have nothing to loose. if he kicks off again then call the police .... but i fully expect he has calmed down now or just not had a crap day yet