Gutted

bry · 09-06-2013, 01:56

I have just heard.That a young lad that i have seen grow up.
As died at the young age of 24 years.
It would seem that he went out with friends and had a few drinks.
He was very Anti drugs.Anyway he has come home and ate his take away.Gone to sleep without any problems.

And the next morning his dad(A very good friend of mine) Has been unable to wake him,he was cold.
What the FOOK can i say to my mate.
Sorry guys for giving you this burden.
Its latr now so i am gonna shoot off.

stinka · 09-06-2013, 07:27

Absolutely terrible mate.

Some comfort in that he more than likely died in his sleep
And knew nothing about it

Rip

clivvy · 09-06-2013, 09:22

******* hell mate that's absolutely awful news I feel terrible for you and especially the family. I cant possibly imagine what is going on right now for them so all I can say is RIP young man. so sorry to read this bud.

jims-terrano · 09-06-2013, 10:28

I don't think anyone can say anymore than has been said. An extremely tragic thing to happen, very sad.

zippy656 · 09-06-2013, 11:32

Our thoughts are with you and your friends

Rip

bry · 13-06-2013, 10:19

Hi guys,thanks for the words.i have been to see my mate.And he has aged about 20 years.And it seems that he his in denial.(Refusing to speak to anyone that mentions his son's name)Lets hope time really does help him to heal.

zippy656 · 13-06-2013, 10:42

Stay close

Just be there

When he needs a friend your there

vince · 13-06-2013, 13:56

in these situations nothing needs to be said, just to be there with him when he needs you is enough. different people react to death in different ways and timescales and the important thing is to allow everyone to come to terms in their own time. im sorry for your loss, vince

09-06-2013, 01:56	#1
bry Senior Member Join Date: May 2013 Location: South Yorkshire.. Vehicle: Nissan Terrano MK 2 SE Posts: 1,757	Gutted I have just heard.That a young lad that i have seen grow up. As died at the young age of 24 years. It would seem that he went out with friends and had a few drinks. He was very Anti drugs.Anyway he has come home and ate his take away.Gone to sleep without any problems. And the next morning his dad(A very good friend of mine) Has been unable to wake him,he was cold. What the FOOK can i say to my mate. Sorry guys for giving you this burden. Its latr now so i am gonna shoot off.

09-06-2013, 07:27	#2
stinka Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2012 Location: Staffs Vehicle: '02 Terrano TDI sport lwb Posts: 3,787	Absolutely terrible mate. Some comfort in that he more than likely died in his sleep And knew nothing about it Rip

09-06-2013, 09:22	#3
clivvy Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Huddersfield Vehicle: Terrano 03 LWB Posts: 6,947	******* hell mate that's absolutely awful news I feel terrible for you and especially the family. I cant possibly imagine what is going on right now for them so all I can say is RIP young man. so sorry to read this bud.

09-06-2013, 10:28	#4
jims-terrano Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Location: UK Posts: 12,965	I don't think anyone can say anymore than has been said. An extremely tragic thing to happen, very sad.

09-06-2013, 11:32	#5
zippy656 Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Devizes Wiltshire Vehicle: Nissan Note Ntec 1.5 Posts: 14,138	Our thoughts are with you and your friends Rip

13-06-2013, 10:19	#6
bry Senior Member Join Date: May 2013 Location: South Yorkshire.. Vehicle: Nissan Terrano MK 2 SE Posts: 1,757	Hi guys,thanks for the words.i have been to see my mate.And he has aged about 20 years.And it seems that he his in denial.(Refusing to speak to anyone that mentions his son's name)Lets hope time really does help him to heal.

13-06-2013, 10:42	#7
zippy656 Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Devizes Wiltshire Vehicle: Nissan Note Ntec 1.5 Posts: 14,138	Stay close Just be there When he needs a friend your there

13-06-2013, 13:56	#8
vince Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: east yorkshire GB Vehicle: lwb nissan terrano '94 Posts: 162	in these situations nothing needs to be said, just to be there with him when he needs you is enough. different people react to death in different ways and timescales and the important thing is to allow everyone to come to terms in their own time. im sorry for your loss, vince