not been here for a bit

exosteve · 28-12-2013, 01:07

as I wanted to save my tenner fee for a bit but I need to talk and I feel among friends here.

I had a call from someone who I have known and been friends with for 30 years.

his son has just decided enough is enough and took his own life by hanging

I have climbed mountains with him,shared campfires and stories with him.

I am very sorry for sharing espessialy at this time of year.and im not looking for sympathy just needed to talk.
time to get more stonned..

Barrbeast · 28-12-2013, 01:24

Sorry to hear about that bud, important thing is to remember the good times - I'm sure wherever he is now he's a lot happier.

exosteve · 28-12-2013, 01:27

over a woman

Barrbeast · 28-12-2013, 01:46

It's never worth taking your life

exosteve · 28-12-2013, 01:53

no. and at 28

solarman216 · 28-12-2013, 01:54

so he took his own life after a problem with a woman, guess he was besotted and could not accept the real life truth, life can be hard but you need to be realistic, life does not, in fact rarely goes the way you want it, to take your own life in these circumstances is rather sad as it discloses a lack of self esteem, which someone close may have detected, perhaps he had no really close friends to point this out, just shows how important friends are, feel for you mate, Rick

bry · 28-12-2013, 08:48

It is very sad that someone has no longer the desire to live.
I understand how someone that is terminally ill would wish to end their life.
But for a fit young person to want to,and indeed do end their life.
They must suffer terrible agonies,just to contemplate it.
Sorry to hear the bad news.Obviously a very hard time for the family involved.

zippy656 · 28-12-2013, 11:33

I was close once...

Small things changed and got some propper help.

Its a VERYA dark place to be, and your always alone.

You know where we are if you need to talk. Im sure every one will agree, just ask.

spinna · 28-12-2013, 11:34

I'm sorry to hear this buddy. I also lost a friend earlier this year in the same way. It's hard to understand why someone would make this decision especially when they have so much going for them.

Dynamics · 02-01-2014, 20:04

RIP.

elty001 · 02-01-2014, 20:23

Sorry to hear of your sad news mate.
You know where I am if you need to talk

28-12-2013, 01:07	#1
exosteve Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: stoke on trent Vehicle: 2001 2.7 td lwb terrano Posts: 2,740	not been here for a bit as I wanted to save my tenner fee for a bit but I need to talk and I feel among friends here. I had a call from someone who I have known and been friends with for 30 years. his son has just decided enough is enough and took his own life by hanging I have climbed mountains with him,shared campfires and stories with him. I am very sorry for sharing espessialy at this time of year.and im not looking for sympathy just needed to talk. time to get more stonned..

28-12-2013, 01:54	#6
solarman216 Off road maniac Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Bexhill on Sea Vehicle: Y60 Patrol Me, 3 ltr Mrs Posts: 17,430	so he took his own life after a problem with a woman, guess he was besotted and could not accept the real life truth, life can be hard but you need to be realistic, life does not, in fact rarely goes the way you want it, to take your own life in these circumstances is rather sad as it discloses a lack of self esteem, which someone close may have detected, perhaps he had no really close friends to point this out, just shows how important friends are, feel for you mate, Rick __________________ Ex banger racer now off road maniac Lokka on the front with manual hubs Diff lock on rear 3 inch SS straight through exhaust Manly winch bumper with 13000 lb winch 10 spike ground anchor, with multiple straps and blocks Super strong body cills capped with scaffold pole 20% stronger springs all round aggressive off road tyres on wheels so just swap. Aim to get stuck and be completely self sufficient in extraction, love getting muddy, 2ft deep is good but rare.

28-12-2013, 01:24	#2
Barrbeast Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: Dundee, Scotland Vehicle: 1990 4.2 SWB Safari Posts: 2,615	Sorry to hear about that bud, important thing is to remember the good times - I'm sure wherever he is now he's a lot happier.

28-12-2013, 01:27	#3
exosteve Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: stoke on trent Vehicle: 2001 2.7 td lwb terrano Posts: 2,740	over a woman

28-12-2013, 01:46	#4
Barrbeast Senior Member Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: Dundee, Scotland Vehicle: 1990 4.2 SWB Safari Posts: 2,615	It's never worth taking your life

28-12-2013, 01:53	#5
exosteve Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: stoke on trent Vehicle: 2001 2.7 td lwb terrano Posts: 2,740	no. and at 28

28-12-2013, 08:48	#7
bry Senior Member Join Date: May 2013 Location: South Yorkshire.. Vehicle: Nissan Terrano MK 2 SE Posts: 1,757	It is very sad that someone has no longer the desire to live. I understand how someone that is terminally ill would wish to end their life. But for a fit young person to want to,and indeed do end their life. They must suffer terrible agonies,just to contemplate it. Sorry to hear the bad news.Obviously a very hard time for the family involved.

28-12-2013, 11:33	#8
zippy656 Senior Member Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Devizes Wiltshire Vehicle: Nissan Note Ntec 1.5 Posts: 14,138	I was close once... Small things changed and got some propper help. Its a VERYA dark place to be, and your always alone. You know where we are if you need to talk. Im sure every one will agree, just ask.

28-12-2013, 11:34	#9
spinna Senior Member Join Date: Dec 2010 Location: Telford, Shropshire Vehicle: Nissan Patrol y60 4.2d Posts: 1,287	I'm sorry to hear this buddy. I also lost a friend earlier this year in the same way. It's hard to understand why someone would make this decision especially when they have so much going for them.

02-01-2014, 20:04	#10
Dynamics Senior Member Join Date: Jun 2011 Location: Nelson's County Vehicle: TERRANO SWB 2.4 Petrol Posts: 568	RIP.

02-01-2014, 20:23	#11
elty001 Senior Member Join Date: Feb 2008 Location: Aflreton,Derbyshire. Vehicle: 2000se+ 2.7tdi terrano II Posts: 6,832	Sorry to hear of your sad news mate. You know where I am if you need to talk