View Full Version : Ryan got angry today, had a fight
96terrano
21-07-2013, 22:15
Pissed a woman off as her kid ran into our car with it's bike and I yelled at the kid, so the mum yelled at me... aye, Bring it on bitch:augie
all i was doing was listening to my music on the USB flashdrive untill i felt the car move and heard a bang/scrape:eek::eek:
so she came to the window, and yelled at me, telling my i cant yell at her kid like i did, i said well youre bloody kid shouldnt of hit my car!, this is when things started getting really quite nasty, couldn't even get out the car as she was standing so close, luckily the meriva has heavy doors so just pushed her, i went into full blown Scottish mode yelled at her, she yelled back, i checked the meriva's door, a wee mark, still made my blood boil:augie was a bunch of tourist their father stepped in and threatened me, i went for him, eventually they just gave up and pissed off, Christ, never been in a domestic like that before, bit shaken but ok;) some holiday makers just think they own the place, kids have no respect, and they weren't expecting my to turn like i did i don't think, think is, i'm extremely protective over our vehicles
best of it was, our neighbor across the road stated clapping and yelled AYE, WELL DONE RYAN!:D
i'm not a vicious person, unless i need to be, their is shortened version of this on facebook, thought it'll be better if my parents didn't know it all, they'd of wanted me to back out.....which i do not ;)
did you yell at him before to warn him he was getting close. or after he hed hit the car
96terrano
21-07-2013, 22:40
did you yell at him before to warn him he was getting close. or after he hed hit the car
After it hit the car, I didn't know the kid was their untill the bang, was listening to my music quite loud
solarman216
21-07-2013, 22:54
Well done Ryan, parents today have been conditioned by SS to be complete and utter pratts, accepting no responsibility for their off spring, you could of course taken their reg and reported it to the police to get their name and address then threaten to sue them for damage, Rick
96terrano
21-07-2013, 23:00
Well done Ryan, parents today have been conditioned by SS to be complete and utter pratts, accepting no responsibility for their off spring, you could of course taken their reg and reported it to the police to get their name and address then threaten to sue them for damage, Rick
Yes, it was a group of 5, walking, no car with them, I know what theyre doing, they'll be staying down the road in some holiday cottages. Good thing is, it didn't turn nasty as in violence, I thought when the man stepped in, it would of as he had ver aggressive behavior, as if it had all I needed to do is grab the old torsion bar I keep around the side of the house for such matters.
Do not mess with a 17 year old scottish lad who has a hidden attitude and Terrano parts.
After it hit the car, I didn't know the kid was their untill the bang, was listening to my music quite loud
sorry mate gotta go with the mum she has just seen her child hit by a car or vice versa shes worrying about the kid then some one starts shouting out the window well the kid still lays on the floor:thumb2
solarman216
21-07-2013, 23:34
sorry mate gotta go with the mum she has just seen her child hit by a car or vice versa shes worrying about the kid then some one starts shouting out the window well the kid still lays on the floor:thumb2
I get the impression that you were stationary at the time Ryan, is that correct? Rick
96terrano
21-07-2013, 23:37
I get the impression that you were stationary at the time Ryan, is that correct? Rick
Yes, was just sitting in the car listening to my music
solarman216
21-07-2013, 23:51
That was what I though, so Darril come on and agree Ryan was right, the mum should be responsible for her child if need be if she cannot control it the child should be on reins, Rick
That was what I though, so Darril come on and agree Ryan was right, the mum should be responsible for her child if need be if she cannot control it the child should be on reins, Rick
agreed :thumbs
if was one of my kids i would have shouted at them and made them apologise
good lad. Stand your ground.
So how would Ryan or - anybody else this happened to - go about getting the parents to cough up for the repair? What if it was a decent sized crease instead of a wee mark?
That was what I though, so Darril come on and agree Ryan was right, the mum should be responsible for her child if need be if she cannot control it the child should be on reins, Rick
if the child is on a bike u may need more than reins:D im sure u wont agree with me but if one of mine was hit by car my thoughts would shit what just happened then just get to the kid. would not matter if it was mine or not then someone shouting out the window would piss me off:)
96terrano
22-07-2013, 00:17
Aye, the car is fine, I'll get a pic of the mark, tbh, it'll probably polish out, but that's not the point, if they apologised I'd of said look, its ok, these things happen, but the fact the kit just homage me a dirty look and went off, theats what made me roll down the windowvand yell,, I mean they knew I was in the car, theyd of heard the music in it as it was a quite street
96terrano
22-07-2013, 00:18
agreed :thumbs
if was one of my kids i would have shouted at them and made them apologise
Good parenting then:thumb2
if the child is on a bike u may need more than reins:D im sure u wont agree with me but if one of mine was hit by car my thoughts would shit what just happened then just get to the kid. would not matter if it was mine or not then someone shouting out the window would piss me off:)
they weren't hit by a car tho, they rode into the car while it was stationary, engine off and just radio on
96terrano
22-07-2013, 00:26
I then got back in the car and continued listening to me music, they started yelling abuse as they Walked away, so i just held my hand on the horn so shut them up, luckily the nearby neighbors knew what was going on, my dad was out and mum was in the shower:thumb2
96terrano
22-07-2013, 00:28
they weren't hit by a car tho, they rode into the car while it was stationary, engine off and just radio on
Yes, Steve is correct:thumb2 I wasn't driving the car
Yes, Steve is correct:thumb2 I wasn't driving the car
sorry mate totally misread the situation :o but I was quite pissed last night I agree with you:thumb2
makeitfit
22-07-2013, 10:01
Well on this occasion Ryan I agree with you :D
However it's very easy to over react in such occasions, especially as I suspect you were probably in a world of your own enjoying your sounds. Then bang, Shock, and you jump etc , red mist reaction follows etc '
Any road up, as Rick says, the kids need a clip round the ear if they didn't say sorry themselves :o
When my son was about 14 he had a spectacular crash into the back of a new Zafira :eek: He was on his BMX doing bmx type nonesense and it all went a bit Pete Tong. He "landed" his trick right on the poor sod's rear quarter, taking out the rear lights and putting a good size pedal scrape down the tail gate :doh
My son peeled himself off the floor and dripping in blood went to find the owner.
Explained his cock up and the owners tended his wounds. After a father to father discussion I settled his damages via my house insurance 3rd party liability cover thingy. My son had a job in a bike shop at the time and was paying off my excess for a few weeks till I let him off the rest :D
Parenting is about building respect for others and self reliance too.
as we like to say , give your kids 2 things, ROOTS, and WINGS.
Well done Ryan, but leave the torsion bar mate, it's too heavy for combat :lol
96terrano
22-07-2013, 11:30
Well on this occasion Ryan I agree with you :D
However it's very easy to over react in such occasions, especially as I suspect you were probably in a world of your own enjoying your sounds.
Yes, that's all I done, thing is the parents just walked past pretending they didn't notice......that's what pissed my off and caused me to roll down the window:D.....holiday makers pah! :rolleyes:
Thing is, the large families in this area tend to be Nob heads, don't know why, just seem to be :augie
although im with you on this Ryan, I think I see the problem.
The problem, is your reaction. OK, the kid hit your car, they probably didn't mean to mate, accidents happen, but if you shouted at the kid first off, then yeah I totally understand the parents reaction.
You didn't give the kid chance to say sorry, or the parents, and as soon as you shouted at the kid you negated any opportunity for apology. not blaming you, just saying that from what I read, you started it!
its not nice being in those situations, ive had them although I try very hard not to be the first to do the shouting.
96terrano
22-07-2013, 14:30
although im with you on this Ryan, I think I see the problem.
The problem, is your reaction. OK, the kid hit your car, they probably didn't mean to mate, accidents happen, but if you shouted at the kid first off, then yeah I totally understand the parents reaction.
You didn't give the kid chance to say sorry, or the parents, and as soon as you shouted at the kid you negated any opportunity for apology. not blaming you, just saying that from what I read, you started it!
its not nice being in those situations, ive had them although I try very hard not to be the first to do the shouting.
Yeah but they walked past pretending they didn't notice......
good lad. Stand your ground.
So how would Ryan or - anybody else this happened to - go about getting the parents to cough up for the repair? What if it was a decent sized crease instead of a wee mark?
I had a incident some years ago.Kids on garage roofs throwing stones.One hit the bonnet of my Granada.Put a dent in it.I spoke to the mother(No one knew who the father of the sprog was,mother included)The answer i got from her.Well thats why you have insurance.I went ballistic,and said what happens if i cancel my insurance and run your little scroat over?
96terrano
22-07-2013, 15:34
I had a incident some years ago.Kids on garage roofs throwing stones.One hit the bonnet of my Granada.Put a dent in it.I spoke to the mother(No one knew who the father of the sprog was,mother included)The answer i got from her.Well thats why you have insurance.I went ballistic,and said what happens if i cancel my insurance and run your little scroat over?
bastards! sounds like the twats we get around here!;)
bastards! sounds like the twats we get around here!;)
Yeah but these were'nt tourists:(
The best thing you could have done is simple head butt the stupid bitch, and if the father started give him a fooker too. Happy days
The best thing you could have done is simple head butt the stupid bitch, and if the father started give him a fooker too. Happy days
:lol:thumbs
aye, give them a bit of the old Pop Eye!
Yeah but they walked past pretending they didn't notice......
in that case yeah, id have got hold of the kids bike for compensation. And if the "father figure" had anything to say about it, twat him WITH the bike.
96terrano
22-07-2013, 19:01
The best thing you could have done is simple head butt the stupid bitch, and if the father started give him a fooker too. Happy days
i hit her with the car door....hard:augie
i hit her with the car door....hard:augie
damn right man. any ****er did that to me (stand in front of me or my car door) id have done the same. People have no right to act like that, so she got what she deserved. next time buddy, take a millisecond to think, and video the thing.:thumbs
96terrano
22-07-2013, 19:03
in that case yeah, id have got hold of the kids bike for compensation. And if the "father figure" had anything to say about it, twat him WITH the bike.
was getting tempted to twat him with a torsion bar that i keep near the front door for that very reason
puddle hoppers inc.
22-07-2013, 23:08
your meriva has heavy doors so you just pushed her..? eh? you used your door to push a woman? :confused:
96terrano
23-07-2013, 00:39
your meriva has heavy doors so you just pushed her..? eh? you used your door to push a woman? :confused:
Good cars Vauxhall, solid build quality:D yes I did, because she was standing really close and wouldn't let my out my own car.
^^ yeah, he hasn't hit her with the doors, he has opened the door and she refused to move. that's fair enough :thumbs
96terrano
23-07-2013, 11:41
^^ yeah, he hasn't hit her with the doors, he has opened the door and she refused to move. that's fair enough :thumbs
Yes:thumb2
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